1. "Maybe we will consider being different quickly." There's nothing like hearing "Maybe I'll stop fucking different people inside the coming months, perhaps now not, difficult to say" to really make me begin falling in love.
2. "I'm scared of how excellent that is." This is normally used as an excuse as to why they can not commit or date you anymore. That's proper. I changed into too exact of a girlfriend. Just too fantastic. So super he had to circulate to Manchester and marry a person else to get away from my greatness, which become physically hurting him because it was too outstanding. Etc. Etc. Etc.
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3. "The timing just is not proper." Yeah, this is truthful. January is a shit time to locate a person you have got a laugh with and connect to on all tiers. That's extra of a March situation proper there.
4. "I want to be with you, but…" Literally whatever that comes after this ought to incorporate tiny violins gambling along him due to the fact that is how garbagey and hilarious some thing he is about to mention is. If you wanted to be with me, you would. Period. I never say, "I need to win a million pounds, however..." due to the fact I reliable want to win a million pounds. The cease.
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5. "I want to maintain things like they're right now." Oh, you suggest as in "completely murky and weird because we don't have any concept what's taking place between the two people?" Yeah, cannot stand in the way of that fairly a laugh time I'm no longer having in any respect.
6. "I don't have sufficient time to present you the attention you deserve." This is some smooth-ass bullshit. See additionally: "You deserve someone who can love you the manner you need to be cherished," which is something an ex genuinely stated to me once. And though I still think he was an fool, to be truthful, I virtually did deserve that and he did no longer give it to me in any respect, so.
7. "What if you simply come over to my location and watch a film?" You mean do I need you to be too lazy to simply take me out somewhere remarkable after which attempt to feel me up inside the first 20 mins of Inherent Vice? Not without a doubt.
eight. "I'm simply no longer ready for a courting proper now." Translation: "I do now not want to be in a dating with you, especially, in all likelihood ever. While my commitment issues may be even greater a long way-attaining than that, it is tough to mention, so again, it is probs just how I feel about you."
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9. Not texting you, however usually replying to the texts you ship them. Jesus Christ, I just were given out of this case. Eventually I stopped texting him and I consider he now sits round questioning why I stopped liking him, considering the fact that I'm sure he thinks he did the whole thing right. Bro, genuinely you did not due to the fact I'm writing about your dumb-dumb behaviour on Cosmo.
10. "I'll be at a bar with my buddies round 11 p.M. You ought to swing via." This one is hilariously lazy. "Hey, so I'll already be at this location this night anyway, so whilst you display up, you will probable ought to meet, like, 5 of my buddies despite the fact that you're now not even positive whether or not or no longer you like me. And additionally I had to put in zero effort to look you. Also I have no concept what time I'll simply be there. You in?"
11. Being indistinct approximately "maybe" getting collectively this weekend. I'll absolutely make certain to clear my calendar on the off chance which you need to hold, especially for the reason that you may possibly simply invite me to some kind of "Come with the aid of my vicinity and I'll make you a peanut butter sandwich even as I make an attempt to finger you" situation.
12. Wanting to "join up later" rather than making a plan. See above, but this one is even greater indistinct and additionally he's going to likely never text you to really try this. And if he does, it will likely be, like, 5 mins before he wants to meet up because you are certainly watching for him to Pick You and are always dressed to the nines.
13. "I want to be specific however I do not want to be boyfriend and female friend." WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?!
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